BBW Admirers? Who are They?

By Radhika | 22-Aug-08 in People
Radhika

Men just lust after the skinny babes right? Why then are we writing about BBW admirers? Does such a class of men even exist?


Of course they do…so read on to find out more!


So what is a BBW admirer? Is he really what you think he is! Of course he is. To explain it simply, a BBW admirer is a man who admires and is interested in BBW women. A BBW Admirer is also known as a Fat Admirer or a Chubby Chaser (used more in the gay community)


A BBW Admirer
Is He a BBW Admirer?

A BBW admirer is attracted to a plus sized woman and this attraction can be sexual or non-sexual. Popular notions seem to suggest that the only men who are attracted to a big woman are men who are big themselves. This isn’t true at all. A BBW admirer isn’t necessarily big himself but is simply attracted to plus sized woman.


In fact, several BBW events around the world aren’t attended by plus size individuals alone but many Fat admirers look forward to these events as an opportunity to meet plus size singles for a date, and some even for a friendship. Have a look at these pictures. This luau obviously attracted big women and big admirers alike. London nightclub Big Girls Paradise is a club where big is beautiful and attracts women of all sizes, and a range of their admirers as well.


Several internet dating sites such as our very own BBW dating site, also list personals of men who are looking to meet BBW women. Is this wrong? Of course not! If other dating sites can list personals where men look for women by stating preferences such as “thin” “tall” “Asian” “western” “family oriented” etc, “BBW” is just another adjective too.


But is it safe to date a BBW admirer? A BBW admirer is not a freak of nature but we would advise you to use your common sense when you think about dating anyone, not just a BBW admirer. He has only stated he prefers BBW woman, but we leave it to you to find out what sort of person he is. Some BBW admirers sometimes develop a Fat Fetish, where they eroticize obesity. If you’d rather steer clear of a fat fetishist, simply keep your eyes and ears open to determine whether the man is simply a BBW admirer or is he leaning more towards fat fetishism. It may be hard to tell sometimes, but if someone makes overtly sexual comments, he’s more likely to be a fat fetishist than just an admirer.


However, the point here is…not all men are the same. BBW admirers find beauty in BBW women and its heartening to know isn’t it? In fact, if you’ve had doubts about your partner really being attracted to you, maybe you should rethink. He might not have an ulterior motive and may simply be one of the many BBW admirers who really do think plus size women are attractive.


To all the women, we would love to hear your thoughts on BBW admirers, or any interesting experiences you have had - Please share in the comments! And Men, why not share what you love and admire about BBW's.

(14 Comments)

I'm torn between loving the idea of there being BBW Admirers, and simply doubting they exist. Having been BBW all my adult life, and been criticised, denigrated & humiliated because of it, my self esteem is such that I simply can't conceive of anyone being attracted to me. I'd really love it if there were BBW Admirers out there - I just haven't yet seen any proof.

  • Jen
  • 22-Aug-08 03:04

I think this site is proof! There's plenty of guys here who are genuinely interested in meeting BBW's. As a BBW, I'm confident, sexy, and curvy, and guys notice that! Like someone else said in relation to one of the other blog posts, its all in how you work it!

I agree. I also think confidence and a positive attitude play a big part in life and meeting people in general - regardless of whether you're fat or thin or any shape/size in between.

  • Only
  • 22-Aug-08 18:02

I agree with Megan, it's difficult to understand that people are BBW admirers - I would like someone to want me for being me not because I'm a BW.It is hard when people even unintentionally make derogatory remarks about us - we're human, and it hurts. x

  • suz
  • 22-Aug-08 05:14

I too agree there are not many males who like big women, when i go out, with my size 8 daughter, they chat to me, so they can try and crack onto my daughter, and the men are my age, 50, and my daughter is 25, she would not even be interested in such an old man, they need to grow up and realise they are not young any more.

  • M
  • 22-Aug-08 20:35

I agree with Conny, people are drawn to people who are positive and confident in themselves and happy and accepting of who they are. My size fluctuates greatly from a size 10 to a 16 and I tend to get the same amount of attention at any size I am because I enjoy life and I think that is what comes across first and foremost versus size.

I'm a BBW admirer for 2 main reason.. The first one is that i like big breast most of all, and the second reason is that BB womans are more friendly and open minded with good caring sence. Bye bye all..

I agree with the fact that all BBW's should be confident in themselves. However, there are too many men who only seem to prey on the BBW's for a booty call because they think that we are easy. I have been on most of the plus sized dating sites for several years and have yet to meet one man who wants to have a serious relationship. I have had numerous requests for a booty call, if I say no, they just disappear. I am a SSBBW. I wear trendy clothing, I have self confidence, yet no man in my life. There seem to be too many players or scammers on these sites. I am remaining hopefull and keep on trying to find a man to build a relationship with. I belive that all BBW's are beautiful and should hold their heads up high and smile no matter what. It is hard, but I try to do this.

Karen - i could have written practically the same post word for word! I have pretty much lost faith in the idea that i will find a man who wants to have a serious relationship with me and not just a quick chat as a pre-amble to swapping numbers for, as you put it, 'a booty call'. I don't know what the future holds so maybe i will meet someone - stranger things have happened! but i do know that all women should be respected and adored for who they are as well as what they look like. :)

I have always been a bbw and have met several diffrent types of women you have to be carefull with all men. As for men stating they are bbw admirers If it seems to good to be true it probably is just like most men. I want so badly to find someone i can be comfortable with and be nude with and have confidence he is truly attracted to me . I personally can find somthing good with most men.The thing is you have some men who say they are bbw admireres that just want easy lay not that we are or married or want a sensual person in bedroom that is giving and not a taker wich most of us are because we want to please. But I have faith and always trust and give the benifit of doubt sometimes it works out pretty well Sharron

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