Ladies, are you tired of dating without ever hearing that “click” that tells you all’s in place? Maybe you’re dating the wrong kind of man then. While I can’t tell you who your perfect man is, what I can tell is there are some men you shouldn’t touch with a barge pole.
- Mr. MCP
For the uninitiated, MCP is Male Chauvinistic Pig. This guy will always think you’re inferior because you’re a woman, attempt to control you, never respect your opinions just because you’re a lady. Unless you like feeling a doormat (even the doormat will probably end up with more self esteem), you need to stop believing you’re inferior, tell this man who’s in charge and hand him his walking pass.
- Mr. Mama’s Boy
Trying to avoid men who are babies is probably a hard ask but it’s okay for them to want their egos stroked every once in a while but anything more, and you’ve got yourself a child, except it’s not so cute when it’s a grown man! They can be selfish and spoilt rotten by their mums so you my dear, will always be fighting to live up to that.
- Mr. Womanizer
It doesn’t matter if you look like Halle Berry or are smarter than Einstein; this guy has roving-eye syndrome and will ogle at every woman that passes by. Okay so I know men like to “appreciate beauty” but when his eyes don’t ever go back in the socket after all the ogling, you need to find yourself a better man.
- Mr. Cheapskate
He’ll buy you flowers but not before bargaining with the flower lady for a $2 discount; he’s got a stack of vouchers ready for redemption and probably parks 22 blocks away just to avoid paying the parking fee. Sure we love guys who’re smart with their money but we didn’t say we’d like a miser who’s saving his money for the flood!
- Mr. Jealous
It’ll start out with him being jealous of the waiter who smiled at you while taking an order, move on to why you took so long to ask the bus driver for directions and reach its height when he tells you your brother hugged you for too long. A little jealousy is cool and keeps things exciting but not when its stifling. Read the signs now and dump this one like a hot brick.
- Mr. Narcissist
He loves himself and spends two hours longer to get dressed than you. Metrosexual can be sexy but not when its so over the top that he can’t think of anyone but himself. And if he’s not preening himself, he’s probably always bragging about his various achievements. If he loves himself so much, there isn’t much room to love someone else is there?
- Mr. Workaholic
So he’s working hard and that’s how he’s able to afford the best restaurants and the expensive clothes. But when working hard becomes working all the time and when work is always a priority; you need to ask yourself if you’re happy to always playing second fiddle, even when the work can wait until tomorrow?
Okay I’m not trying to be whatever the female equivalent of an MCP is. I’m just saying getting a commitment out of these guys could be a bit of a battle considering their lifestyles or attitudes aren’t exactly conducive to having another person in their lives.
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A mix of all of those Misters is a deadly combination. What I am used to unfortunately.
My ex was a mix of number 2. and number 5. Thank God I let him go, ugh!
Yes everything thats been said... Sounds about right. But sometime us gals fall into that. Which is sad to see!!! It cant be helped
I've dated an MCP lol. Well, when I say dated, it was one date. No way was I going on a second. I met him on here too. He asked me why I divorced my husband and 'what did I do'. I was like 'ermmm he cheated and so I divorced him'. So he said 'yes but what weren't you giving him to make him cheat - it's always the woman's fault'. He was awful - our date was a meal and as the waiter was bringing our meal he said 'don't you dare say thank you - it's his job and he is here to serve us'. He was seriously out of this word in a very negative way lol.
Cool, ......the list for what men have to avoid is where?