How to Approach Single BBW Women

Women can be difficult to understand and guys have often told me that they just can’t figure out the right way to approach women. Most don’t even know what they’re doing wrong most of the time. Here are five basic tips to make things easier for you!

• Be Observant

Instead of using a bad pickup line to start a conversation, observe something about the lady and start a conversation based on that. Say she’s ordering a Greek salad when you walk up to her. Something like “So are the salads good here?” might sound cheesy but at least you’ll get a reply, which will be the cue for further conversation.

• Maintain Eye Contact

Look into a woman’s eyes when you talk to her. Even if you’re not confident, it will seem so. The confidence will draw her towards you.

• Don’t Hesitate

Get over the nervousness before you start heading towards her. Don’t let her spot the hesitation or it’s going to be instant turn-off for her. Again, it’s all about pulling yourself together before you approach her so all she sees is the confident you.

• Stop Fidgeting

It’s natural to be nervous but when you are finally talking to her, stop that fidgeting! She will read your fidgeting will translate as being uncomfortable, impatient or even bored and become uncomfortable herself and even lose interest.

• Send out the Right Signals

Your body language and behavior can send out the wrong signals even without you knowing. Here are some tips to help you get it right.

• Pay attention when she’s talking. Every woman appreciates a man who listens.
• Don’t lean in too close to her. It can intimidate her.
• Use a non-aggressive tone of voice.
• Stand up straight instead of hunching over.
• Smile. No one looks attractive scowling!

So hopefully you’ll keep these tips in mind and use them the next time you approach a BBW lady. Let me know how it goes!

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