BBW Dating: 5 Categories of Women to Avoid

By Radhika | 21-Aug-12 in Dating
So much has been said about the kind of men woman should avoid, but how often do men get someone to tell them what kind of woman to avoid in the dating world? Well, here is a small list of the kind of women that are a no-no for your peace of mind in the dating sphere.

1. Miss Opinion
This one is very hard to recognise as she comes in two shades:

Miss Control Freak:
As soon as she has charmed her way into your heart and the honey moon stage of the relationship is over, you will begin to hear things like:

Hun can’t you drive faster than that?

Hun don’t you want to try something healthier?

Ignore such red flags at your own peril because before you know it, she has you under a strict diet or even dress code! Nothing you do is ever good for her and if she is not criticising something you have done she is arguing with you about something you should have done. You only end up losing yourself in such a relationship.

Miss Argumentative:
This lady not only wants things her way but will pick a fight about everything. Everything has potential to turn into an argument with her. “Is that all you are going to tip the waiter?” this simple question can transform from your tipping habits to the day you forgot to text her goodnight. If you are constantly walking on egg shells to avoid ticking her off then maybe it’s time you said goodbye.

2. Miss Insecure

She also goes by the name Miss Emo. She is not only high maintenance emotionally but she will leave you physically drained every time you meet her. You constantly have to keep reassuring her about different aspects of her life. She needs you to tell her that you like her hair colour or that she doesn’t look fat in that dress! She also has an alter ego called Miss Clingy. She texts you ten times in a day, writes on your Facebook wall, re-tweets all you tweets and gets a bit needy when you don’t text her during lunch. Unless you want to wear your kid gloves daily to handle her, flee!

3. Miss Good Life

High maintenance doesn’t begin to describe her. She wants the best things in life and expects the grandest of gestures, high-priced evenings and pricey desserts. You will realise her materialistic nature if the first thing she notices about you are your expensive cuff links. She also lives in a fantasy world where it is all about having a good time. She is not familiar with the words “bargain” or “saving”. Spending time with her is good for your social life but very bad for your wallet. Avoid this one at all costs she’s going to max your credit cards and wipe you clean before you know it.

4. Miss My-Ex This and That
This is probably the most lethal of them all and doesn’t need many words to describe her. Everyone has their own history and baggage but you don’t not want a lady who is still attached to her ex and her is ex is her point of reference for everything.

My ex and I!” “You know my ex used to...”, “my ex this my ex that.” Decide already! Are you still with him or not! Avoid any woman who still has unresolved issues from her past relationships, it’s guaranteed to get messy soon.

5. Miss-Feminist

You can never get it right with this one. She believes that men are the cause of all the problems women have. She is all about girl power and insists that women do not really need men in their lives. She refers to all men as “jerks” and “dogs”. Her character is a bit ironical because she is always looking for a boyfriend. When she finally gets a boyfriend, it will be an uphill task for him to make her happy. She has a sort of love hate relationship with all men.

The best way learn how to pick the right woman is to first learn the kind of women to avoid. Someone wise once said that “Nobody is perfect in character and everyone has baggage; it’s just about finding the one worth carrying it for.

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